Embracing Motherhood:
The Real Journey Beyond Birth
I know you want to be a great mom—better than your own parents were. You want your child to be happy and shield them from suffering. You’ve already achieved so much in life, and you’re determined to master motherhood, too. You’ve accomplished a true miracle: bringing a new soul into the world. But then, something unexpected happened.
Time seems to stretch strangely. Some days feel like they last forever, while a whole month can slip by in the blink of an eye. There is this moment of giving birth, splitting your life in two: before and after. Before, you sometimes long for it—life as it was. After, your life is full of challenges, ambivalence, and complicated emotions. You thought childbirth would be the hardest part. You believed that once your baby arrived, everything would fall into place. It would be beautiful, easy, and joyful, and you’d instinctively know exactly what to do.
Constant doubt
But now, you constantly question whether you’re doing things right. Everyone has an opinion on how you could be a “better mom”—even your father-in-law, who, believe it or not, doesn’t even know how to hold a baby! You feel inadequate, incompetent, and like you’re constantly failing.
Losing Yourself
You don’t feel like yourself anymore. You love your baby deeply—intense, endless love—but there’s also a sense of disappointment and regret. This isn’t what you expected. You feel overwhelmed and even angry—angry with yourself for not knowing or doing better, angry with the world because it feels like no one truly understands. And sometimes, even angry with the very little one who has turned your world upside down. You might even scream inside (or out loud): Take her away! I can’t do this anymore!
Guilt and Shame
Then, guilt and shame set in. You think that you’re not supposed to feel this way. You fear you’re a “bad mom.” You’re scared you’re hurting your baby, or that people will judge you for having these feelings. You feel isolated, like you’re the only one going through this.
Is This You?
NOW WHAT IF I TOLD YOU…
What if I told you that you’re not alone, and it’s okay to feel this way?
What if I told you that I was once in the same dark, terrifying place a few years ago?
And what if I told you that these feelings have meaning, and they can help you write a new story for yourself?
It took me time to figure this out. I read dozens of books, searched for guidance, joined mom groups, subscribed to blogs and vlogs, and consulted with professionals. But all I found was more confusion.
Then I realized the answers weren’t out there. The key was inside me all along.
Another Story is Possible
Imagine being one of those mothers who feels truly happy and fulfilled in motherhood.
Picture yourself having a deep, strong connection with your baby: you can intuitively understand her needs and respond to them effortlessly, and it feels natural and light.
You are fully in tune with the child within yourself, and this connection guides you, helping you stay present with your baby and truly enjoy every moment.
You feel free to explore, learn, and grow along the way. Gone are the days of anxiety and fear of making mistakes—now, you’re excited to try new things. You’ve rediscovered your spontaneity and your powerful maternal instincts.
Imagine being able to nurture your own needs without guilt, while also meeting your baby’s needs with ease.
You stand strong, confident, and empowered in your role as a mother.
But you also know when to ask for help, because you understand that doing so doesn’t make you any less of a great mom—it makes you more capable and resourceful. You ask in a way that is positive, respectful, and efficient.
You realize you don’t have to do it all. You’ve identified your priorities, and you know exactly how to allocate your time and energy, setting clear, healthy boundaries that serve both you and your baby.
You’ve forgiven yourself for not being the “perfect” mother, and you’ve embraced a far more fulfilling vision: becoming the best possible mom for your child, with all the love, patience, and strength that comes from within.
BECOMING A MOTHER
Your 8-weeks online program to help you build :
Connection
Discover the power of attachment. Heal from the mother wound and reconnect with your inner child. Nurture a deep, loving bond with your baby.
Autonomy
Redesign the mom you want to be. Stay true to yourself and regain the confidence to care for your needs. Learn how to ask for support without guilt.
Spontaneity
Embrace the freedom to fail and grow. Let go of fear, tap into your inner mother, and gain the confidence to learn and evolve.
Healthy boundaries
Let go of perfectionism and set realistic expectations. Forgive yourself and embrace the concept of the good enough mother.